Women who say; "I want a man who will treat me like a Queen." No doubt they do. But it you treat people like royalty; don't be surprised if they treat you like commoners and subjects, which is the whole point of being royalty. A Queen will treat him as a King mutual level.
I think your problem isn't that you're "putting them on a pedestal", I think instead you need to forget about the notion that if you "respect" somebody that they will respect or like you in return.
"Nice guys" fall into the trap of believing that they give women more respect than other men and thus are more deserving than other men. However, girls (and people in general) don't date based off of who is the most deserving of their affection, they date the guy who they are most attracted to on a number of levels. Attraction can't be bought and saved as if you were saving up for a car.
Instead of thinking that girls are obligated to go out with you because of the respect you give them; think that they deserve the respect. Then start focusing on what makes you an interesting person and try to find what girls are attracted to that. So in short, respect women even more and don't think women are obligated to date you because you "respect" them.
She is good enough and someone does want to love her. She just haven’t found him yet! And hanging around with guys that make her question her self-worth? Those guys never intended to love her. It’s hard to hear, I know, but it’s the truth.
It’s pretty clear that men and women operate completely different when it comes to interactions with the opposite sex. Here are some key points to remember when it comes to understanding men. First, they have a lot of testosterone. This makes them think about sex a lot more than most women do. If a man is attracted to a woman, his penis immediately lets him know. He has a sexual urge that is activated when he is around her, and he has to keep that under control until she gives him the green light to satisfy his urge. So, what will a man do to satisfy this sexual urge? In the beginning it can be a little tricky to accurately read a man’s intentions. Does he really like her, or does he just want to sleep with her? Because of his sexual urge, he will put on all of his charm to impress her.
“No” is one of the most powerful words a female can tell a man that has expressed interest in her. Something about our primitive instinct to be hunters. They like the pursuit of the chase and when she gives in too easily, it isn’t fun anymore. In some cases, we will stop chasing altogether. Saying “no” keeps us guessing and trying to figure her out. It’s a challenge, and men love a challenge. Knowing he had to earn her makes him feel good about himself, and good about her. Sleeping with him too soon, or always being available when he wants to see her is a sure-fire way to make him less interested. The chase isn’t fun when she’s always predictable. Plus, the longer time he takes figuring her out, the more time he gets to see just how beautiful she really is.
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