When
we meet someone new a first impression is first about looks; only later do
things such as personality, brains and character start to take on meaning. Her
weight isn't much of a factor unless she is morbidly obese or anorexically
skinny. The key to perceived beauty is the face.
Low
self-esteem is more common in beautiful women than you would expect. Some don’t
believe they are attractive. They have a distorted self-image and don’t accept
others who tell them how stunning they are. Thus in their mind, everyone is a
“liar” and not to be trusted. Some are dependent on the first impression
reaction of others to define who they are, i.e. someone who has it all because
of her beauty. So, she starts to see herself as someone with no talent, no
intellect, no redeeming qualities other than her looks.
Then
there are the beauties that are truly shy, or to protect themselves from
constant harassment, they withdraw. Unfortunately, they can come across as
aloof, stuck up, snooty and even arrogant. If we take the time to get to know
her instead of condemning her, we might find out she's really kind,
conscientious, caring, and perhaps just a little bit shy. It's almost as if
we're subconscious, or for some maybe even consciously, looking for a reason to
treat her as less than a person.
An
experienced man has done well with women, and he knows what women want. He’s
charming, confident, and a little bit of a rogue. But not only that, he moves
things along smoothly and naturally. Because he knows women need a man who can
do that, and he knows how to do it.
That’s
one of the main stumbling blocks for less experienced guys. Plainly and
naturally, they don’t know how to make things easy for women to be with them.
You
need to be not only confident in you but proud of the man you are. Clothes can
improve your outward appearance, but the change has to start from within. The
foundation of your confidence cannot come from attire, nor trinkets or jewels,
not even a car or a home; it must come from a foundation of real inner
strength.
Here is an excerpt from my book…
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